You are not truly a product of your raising... your mind is an elastic thing...it bends one way or the other as your surroundings change and you meet new people and learn new things.
I was raised in an orphanage..... they literally BEAT the bible into us... we had bible readings 3X a week, went to church wed...sat and sun.
Up until I was about 14, I could still remember chapters and verses by heart and quote you every book and how many chapters each had in it.
When I was fostered out, the family I went into was an outer rural family, half farmers (raised all sorts of animals) and half city...(dad and mom both worked in town 1/2 hour away.
Your intelligence tells you what is right or wrong and you personally go by that...unless your mind accepts what is happening as right (beating up weak kids), even though you were raised it is wrong, it feels good...
so you do it anyway.
Trust me... I am the most mellow guy ...and will let most folks push me much farther than the average guy would go...
Up to a point.... then you are either baldly hurt, or dead.
Oh did I mention after the bullies in the orphanage beat me up.... I waited till they were asleep and beat the crap out of them with the little wood chairs next to the beds? Hospitalized 3 of them... had to spend a month in solitude, in a little room they kept the kids with chicken pox.
You are as an adult, a thinking machine...you know what is right....don't let society tell you different.
Treat others as you want to be treated....even if you don't agree with what they say, and let them know, you will treat them with respect, if they do for you likewise.
And when they call you stupid, dumbazz, ignorant or what ever because you don't think like they do...tell them good bye...have a good life.
I don't do drama....if someone tries to bring drama into my life...I swat it like a fly.... yup....talk to the hand...smack the hand, I break your arm...then call the cops because you attacked me....then sue you for the trouble you caused me....
Is that how I was raised ?.....nope...its what I learned throughout my 55 years of life.
I'm still learning....