So, the Blue Ridge folks need to decide if they are "before" or "after".
Or we can simply leave it up to the folks who are going to Blue Ridge and then they can figure it out at some future point in time.
Indecision on Blue Ridge means nobody who is working and has to spit soon on the vacation time will be able to make any firm plans to go with them, but by removing the "confusion" portion of the trip we can go on and plan the MM portion with firm certainty.
The MM portion starts with arrival on Weds June 18th and ends on Sunday June 22nd. MM will pack that sucker with more road miles, bike rallys and whiskey plant tours than you can shake a stick at (and Oldfeller will have boom sticks and brass bits for those who want to stay in that day).
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Me, if I had my wife along I'd do Blue Ridge first and get a good taste in her mouth with the good accommodations, easy roads and pretty scenery.
Then I'd simply tell her "when she got tired" we could go home early as I value her comfort and care about how she feels more than the guys or any of this motorcycle shite.
Wives like statements like that, since they feel we like bikes and the guys better than them sometimes. Having you willing to toss the rest of the trip for her would make her feel much better about things, really.
And she will take you up on it, too.
Sleeping in a cabin, on a real bed with a real bathroom with hot showers and hot meals also gives you some bonus points at the front end ....
Starting out at MM's having to crawl in and out of a truck bed sleeping bag, cooking over a campfire getting smoke in her hair, pissing in a porta-potty and having to take her showers under a garden hose -- not so much on them there bonus points from a woman's perspective, buddy. Riding her ass off on them long long road trips won't go over any better either.
And she'll talk to her girl buds for weeks & weeks about that whiskey plant tour and the bike rally with them young biker tat girls showing their tats off all over the place ....
jest a wigglin' their tats off, they are ....