ohiomoto wrote on 06/24/19 at 06:15:48:hotrod wrote on 06/22/19 at 18:33:53:------------------------
That's not fair. I killed a man in an accident when the front tire on a larger cab-over truck I was driving blew out and I couldn't keep the truck on the road. The other driver was in an S10 and didn't have a chance. I hit him head-on. The truck I was driving literally pushed his truck off the road before it flipped end over end. I found myself hanging upside down from the seatbelt when it finally came to rest. I somehow crawled away with just a broken leg, but I saw the lifeless driver still in his little truck. I was transported to the hospital and was not charged for the accident. I have to live with the sight of a dead man in my head.
When I think about it, it's like reliving a bad dream. I can't imagine what everyone involved must be going through. It looked like a war scene. I'm sure the driver of that pickup truck didn't set out to kill anyone on the road that day. He may have done something negligent or maybe it was something out of his control, we don't know.
Throwing "murder" at that person without knowing what caused the accident is stupid. Sorry, end rant.
I'm sorry for your painful memory.
Imagine your anguish had you, and not something beyond your control, caused the crash.
I lost a left front on a Mack. On a two lane, no power steering, immediate left turn, the wheel spun so fast and my left arm got in it. Thought sure it was gonna break. In the seconds it took to realize what had just happened and asses the situation I saw I was about to put my seat into a telephone pole, I got stood up and wrestled the wheel enough to just miss the pole.
The tire exploding was so loud, the concussion shook my guts and the shower of fiberglass and the tread blowing through the fender , all just froze me for a second, but it wouldn't have mattered if I had known exactly what was going to happen and been holding the wheel with everything I had. The immediate and violent power of that truck wanting to turn left would have easily overpowered me.
And I have many times replayed that moment, knowing that my path would Not have been changed, no matter who or what I saw coming.
Thank God it wasn't your fault.