Thanks guys, I appreciate your input/replies.
I find some of that revealing too Jog, and see the correlation of PC creeping into enabling, which.....
Never solves anything.
Years ago I went to rehab.
It was the beginning of a new life for me!
However, it was so far away from home, I had no visits of family.
Weekends were family days.
Saturday had interactive games, etc, barbque, and then family group therapy in the evening, whole families.
I just sat and drank it all in, instead of booze
It was quite a schooling.
I saw how enablers got their fix on being rescuers, thinking it lifted them to a higher level of caring, etc.
Boy, they sure didn't want to hear this....
They got so mad at the counsellors and put blame on everyone else, etc.
In many ways they were more sick than us rummies because our illness was readily visible, theirs, the enablers, were rooted much deeper and more a constant factor in all they did in life and relationships...,
Sorry, kinda got lost in reflection
Jog, these people are a fact, and part of the obstacle to a healthy society, so we just can't ignore them or discard them..,.
You any ideas on it that might prove constructive?
Gee, thanks Bot, figgers