you can mellow the sound a bit by adding the extra pipe length you mentioned IF you include a short baffle in it. There are 3" baffles available for assorted pipe sizes and they cost less than $10, or you could make one with another piece of pipe that fits just inside the outer one.
Cut a few slits around the pipe about 1/3rd the way through the pipe and then hammer one side of the slit down so it is partially blocking the air flow, slide it in the larger pipe and you have a baffle. Costs next to nothing to do.
This is one from Jireh Cycles that costs $1.95
looks like they used a can opener to make the darn thing
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