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I know a couple whose girl now wants to be a man. I understand, because as a child, she always felt like a boy, and she acted like one too. If that's how you want to be, that's fine, and I won't try to forget to call you a he. She appreciates that I'm trying, because that's what matters most to her.
But she has a female body, although it wasn't visible for a while because she hadn't fully developed yet. Many young children still have to figure out for themselves what gender they are. After all, we're not men or women; we are consciousness, and that's neutral.And that's why children look neutral.
I know the psychology behind this "boy" that makes him want to be a boy. And I would think it better for "him" if he took on the challenge of facing the pain and his fear he feels for the world outside his super-loving parents, because that's where the root of it lies for him. I am therefore not in favor of continuing this protective climate, especially not when it's advocated by adults struggling with the same challenge.
And when you're a woman who looks and dresses like a man, with a passport you'd rather not have, so what? You're not a wimp, are you? Where is your spirit?
I do believe we should give children freedom in how they want to express themselves. If you work against that, they'll gravitate more strongly toward the opposite direction.
But I'm not going to pave their adult lives with roses.
I also won't let anyone force me how I have to think, I want to accept you as best as i can, especially if you're a child, but don't overdo it. I'm not playing your game.
I knew a grown man who was a transvestite, and he made a pass at me in women's clothes. Then I'll give you a piece of my mind because I see you're a man, taking on a woman's role because you find it hot, and I don't appreciate that.
If a gay man wants too much attention from me because he can't stay to himself, he'll hear that from me too. I'm not going to tolerate you,
By the way, I do appreciate you discussing things beyond one-liners for once.
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