I'm not a hugger and only return hugs to women if they insist, unless I'm personally intimate with them
RULES
keep arms above the woman's arms (you are the man for god's sake), and no lower than her shoulder blades
No hair fondling
no tugging her waist to your stomach
a hug of condolence not should include groping
...and for her... no spray on pants at your husbands eulogy?
JESUS H CHRIST! that's inappropriate!
Usha should have him restricted to the couch...
but we all know where that leads