Well mark, it's a sad day for you  - you see, I've already shown that long before I showed up on this little forum, you and your cronies were doing the exact same thing as you accuse me of.

Only in your mind.

"Maybe you are putting the cart in front of the horse, as I don't see how a conversation need produce a problem?"

 It doesn't.  I said "Only a problem if someone lets it be a problem." not A conversation must produce a problem.