Having just celebrated 38 years with my bride, I can share with you one thought that has really helped in overcoming the rough spots.....
And that would be learning how to communicate.
Even though women ALWAYS think they are right, in any er, discussion of disagreement
You must understand that right, or wrong, is nothing more than a "want" to any dialogue of opposing views/beliefs.
If....that is your sole purpose, you will fail miserably in a relationship, and I dare say, life in general.
Trying to understand any opposing views/beliefs is paramount, its the wisdom behind the adage "Walk a mile in another mans shoes......"
If you find confrontation with dialogue troubling.....
If you find it brings anger, upheaval, distraught thought, resentment, etc, then you ARE aware that YOU are the one who is INVITING those emotions into your life......
NOT, your partner, or life, itself.
No one can force that upon you, you have to WILLINGLY accept those emotions into your own head.
Yeah, easier said than done, but doable, with certain understandings.
Don't take things personal.
Don't make assumptions.
Be impeccable with spoken words/speech.
And finally, always try/do your best......
Which, is a always changing scenario based on how we are presently living/thinking about circumstance and implementing the 3 listed tools above.
And with a partner, one more thing, do NOT let the sun set on your anger......
If you can't muster the ability and strength to abide by this one thing, then I suggest the real issue resides in YOU, and your NEED to be RIGHT....
Which is a self worth and inferiority issue that only YOU can absolve through being honest with self.....
So, that is about it, other than just always be right
PEACE DUDES.......class over