eau de sauvage wrote on 07/24/18 at 22:59:03:raydawg wrote on 07/24/18 at 21:49:59:
Personally, I struggle pert near everyday with scripture, when my verse of the day, which I read every morning when I awaken, talks about loving others, etc.
No offence intended Ray but the scripture hasn't worked for you. Look I've put up a proposal, that no reasonable person can disagree with. We currently have a moderator Serowbot, but his hands are tied because he has no rules to go on and currently the task is impossible unless we begin with a clean slate.
If everyone agrees that a good and EASY to understand moderation rules are implemented then we can start a thread where we all nut out exactly what we agree what posts Serobot is entitled to delete. Once we all agree then I'm sure that Serobot will not have to do any work as we will automatically self moderate.
This can only work to everyone's benefit.
Are you with me. If we can get MnSpring, Yourself, Jog, and a few other regular posters to agree, we can begin a thread where we collectively write the Political Forum Rules, much as is done on many other forums.
Surely this is a good idea? If scripture worked we wouldn't have religious wars.
I take no offense.
I think you miss the premise of what I shared.
If anyone needs others to believe, behave, etc, in such a manner, and they don't......
And you find fault in that, acting justified in your actions because they caused it.....
Demanding, suggesting, they change, with, or without your own change, that is a ultimatum.
I don't think you grasp the fact that its YOU, who are in charge of his own joy and happiness, peace and serenity......
Not the actions of other.
Of course they can impact it, then the choice is yours to weigh, is their company worth keeping.....
That is solely your own decision, which can not be delegated to others, and your sole responsibility to yourself.
Simply put, without all my lecturing
If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.
That is not intended as a dig, wishing you to go, no.....
But as a a repair to ones problems.
This wisdom truth has been passed along for generations, because it works.
If you care about yourself....
If the actions of others, on the site frustrate you....
Cause you anger, grief, or to lose your buzz....
Then you, and only you, decide whats best, for you.
You can't blame others, none of us can, this mindset is what is driving all this ugliness in much of the social media, etc.
It can never bring about lasting peace, never, it isn't theoretically possible, its not.
PS: Just to clarify you remark about scripture not working for me.
Honestly, your statement is about as ignorant as they come, not dumb, ignorant, you know the difference?
Before God and His word, I really was lost, of no value, miserable.
Not enough drugs or booze, toys or chicks, money or whatever, to provide me a sustainable understanding of what happiness and joy is.
I simply could not live by the lies of man, his false promise, anymore....
The pusher man, the pimp, the salesman, and yes, even some preacher men, lied to me.
I was no longer a husband, a father, a friend, who cared about others, only my own self pity and loath.
My Jesus gave my wife a husband, my children, a father, and friends....
a true friend.
Not a enabler, no, but one who holds them accountable to our friendship, and expects them to hold me to the same.
Correct me with love, and except love as freely as you give it away.....
I can thank my Jesus, daily, for such a chance.
Your statement/observation, is spoken out of pure ignorance of the facts.
I am far away from perfect, I accept that, it gives me cause and reason to keep suiting up and getting into the game daily.
In AA, they have a saying, it prolly escapes a lot of folks.
I know when I first shared it with my wife, years ago, I think her innermost thought was prolly closer to WTF, instead of understanding the depth to what it reveals/says....
It is:
I am a grateful alcoholicHave a good one mate, hope I didn't bore you too much