MShipley wrote on 07/12/18 at 08:22:50:As an aside to the topic, I am in awe of anyone who can overcome an addiction to drugs, good for you.
Real quickly I will tell you the 30 sec. story. When I was 29 I woke up in a hospital and was told 1 would not live another year due to my alcoholism and drug abuse. I drank a half gallon of bourbon everyday for years. Anyway I went home and got drunk. I didn't want to die, I had a 2 year old son. I took out my Bible and started reading. One day I got on my knees and told God this was out of my control, I could not stop and if he had plans for my life he would have to do something. I also promised that if he would save my life that what I had left live would be devoted to him. Selfish I know. But God does not ask us to come with the right motivation, he just ask us to come.
Anyway, over the next 6 months through what I would tell you was miraculous events I met my problem head on and that was 34 years ago and I have not had a drink or used drugs since.
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No drug, nothing even prescribed?
I have shared my overcoming many times here as well.....
Just had another sober birthday on the 4th.
Re: drugs.
I have had dental work, triple hernia surgery, as well as my cancers....
I needed pain meds.
I told every doctor right up front, about my addicting personality.
One told me he wasn't worried, because I had the honesty to tell him about it.....
I said, not good enuff, you are getting paid to perform this procedure, and you are IN CHARGE of my drug use/needs, to get over this surgery.
Do NOT listen to me if I call with a excuse to needing more pain meds, I am really good at convincing others of my needs, when I am under their spell......
He looked at me, just stared real hard into my eyes.....
I didn't drop off my gaze, but met his full on.
He finally gave me a small nod, and dropped his gaze.
I could tell I made some kind of connection, a understanding, in his life.
I hope it was the very fact that saying NO, is better than giving in, to a patience who whines for more meds.
Its like this.
You wanna lose weight?
Decide your portions before you sit at the table, and STICK TO IT.....
Its YOU putting that fork or spoon, into your mouth, NOT the Chefs.....
Also, my "drugs" were left in plain view on the counter, so my wife could also have peace of mind, if she wanted to count them to see if I wasn't taking them as prescribed.
I never asked her if she did, nor do I do this as a safe guard, delegating MY responsibilities to self, with her being the warden.....
Yes, the draw is different for everyone.....
Some will never get fat, nor become addicts and rummies, but that is beside the point.
Everyone has a mind (mostly) and a FREE will, therefor, its up to YOU, to ask for help, plain and simple.
BTW, that euphoria, the effect, of pain meds is real, like a flame to a moth, I feel its draw.
I want more, this feels GREAT.....
You just don't, you can't, its a lie.
It's only MASKING the pain, NOT taking it away.
The "pain" in the lives of alcoholics and addicts IS REAL, fix that, not mask it.... By continual and habitual using of booze and drugs.
You CAN fix your pain, that is VERY DOABLE, and the freedom of escaping a vicious cycle of addiction alone, will bring you such joy you will wonder why you didn't choose it years ago....
That doesn't matter tho, as today you can. and tomorrow will bring more promise, building upon each sober day