Got myself moved onto the new patch o dirt and am on the forums via cell data I can also tether my pc but haven't set it up yet  so my participation will be limited for now

Without your health, you can't build up the place. If it's all you can do to drag yourself to work,, then you'll eat the quick,easy ,toxic crap that's for sale everywhere. Take care of you, and do the stuff that needs done. I know you have been and are still going through a serious adjustment in your life. Looks like you're landing on your feet.
As noted, you're on your own place, and That's such a different feeling from renting. I know we've disagreed about stuff, but don't think I'm not rooting for you.
If you don't have a BBQ pit, and decide to go with a pit, rocks, and a wire rack, make sure about the wire rack. I've heard about people using refrigerator racks and getting sick. Don't Know that's true, maybe it was galvanised, maybe it's just BS, just don't want to hear that you got in a bind,,

Thanks fellas
I do indeed have a pit Justin
Also thinking of getting some LP and checking the system for leaks
If that goes well I'll have a stove (with oven ) and way more furnace than I need this winter