Quote:... Stupid busybody Idiot, ... can't tell the difference between correcting and abusing ...
A Child grows up, learning that, a certain behavior, will elicit a certain response.
That is how, 'teaching', works.
One child, will learn, they behave in a acceptable way,
or they will get a slap on the butt.
Or they take the garbage out, (without being told), then get a extra cookie.
(Consciences for Actions)
Another Child will learn, they can do anything they want,
and at any time they want.
Then, when they are 16, and are turned down by a girl for a Prom date.
They steal a bunch of guns, and shoot up a school.
The big fault here is, the Cops.
Where did Common Sense go?
Sure, they have to come out when called.
And they don't Know who the, 'bad', guy is.
But, After they talked, to the two parties, saw how the children of the two parties behaved.
And determined it was NOT Abuse.
They should have NOT, taken it to the next level.
Well, unless, 'they', were never taught.
The fact that, Actions, elicit certain, Consciences, (good or bad)
are less and less taught.
"This stove is hot, do not touch the burner"
Then some day, when curiosity gets the best of the child,
they, 'touch' the hot burner.
They Cry, a parent comes, consoles them, kisses the burnt finger,
holds them, then, gently, scolds them,
"See, you don't touch the burner". That is raising a stable child.
Another tells a child, 'The Burner is hot", then holds their hand on it.
THAT, is Abuse!
See, Needs to be a, 'Breeding' License !!!!