LANCER wrote on 08/25/13 at 05:05:23: Forget about the "trading up" type, be patient and wait for those looking for a real relationship based on the heart, not the bank account. If you have a good heart then that will attract someone else with the same.
If you really do want another relationship, a GOOD one, then pray about it. Prayer changes things.
I think I have a good heart Lancer ... I ain't perfect, but I always try and do the right thing ... as for the prayer thing, I'm not a religious person, but I do believe in a higher power ... I'd like to believe that prayer changes things, but am not sure ... maybe I should try it ... I've nothing to loose ... thanks for the advice.
BTW, loneliness is THE hardest thing I've ever had to deal with in my life ... I know, compared to some things that others have to deal with in their lives it might not seem all that imortant, but loneliness has taken a toll on me these 3 1/2 years ... the one thing I want most in this world, to share the special moments of life with someone special, seems to be the hardest thing of all to get ....