Face, just go out and do stuff you like to do, that way, if you meet a gal out there doing the stuff you like to do, then more than likely you two will get along right nicely.
Just remember, if you treat someone like you want to be treated, you will always be happy with that person if they return the favor, if they don't treat you the same way, go meet someone that will.
All in all, there are going to be a few folks who lie, cheat, and steal, to get what they can.... you just gotta learn to tune your radar to pick up those types...sometimes it takes a few times...
Good luck ! Don't go out looking, let them find you....