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www.IntruderAlert.com, pretty good site. Just be careful when you get into some of the non-technical forums, you're wife will end up taking a skillet to the back of your head...
IA can be difficult to join, sometimes you never get the correct temp password and have to e-mail the support staff a half dozen times or better before your "active" membership actually allows you to be active on the site.