Really? You want the experts to speak on the pictures shown? Heck, that would spoil all the fun you guys are having.
I'll speak to the "cam spauling" shown. I'll let others speak to the white valves (which are pretty much normal looking for a stock EPA lean engine).
This one is hard to judge from the picture, as you can't tell if it is at the apex of the point of the lobe or the bottom of the opposite side -- the picture angle is sorta tough to interpret. If it is the peak of the point, then it is typical damage from low ZDDP oil and is unfortunately commonly found in our engines. If this is lobe peak, then this is ZDDP damage in its infancy, it can get a lot worse than this before the valve train loses any functionality.
If it is the round bottom of the cam form, then it it a different story completely. Remembering that the cam blank is a
case hardened mild soft (tough core) steel investment casting so the original surface is pretty rough all over, as you can note from the undressed portions. So perhaps what you see (if it is the bottom surface of the cam form) might appear to mebbe be a lack of clean up in the grind job.
(I'm never that lucky, for me it would have to be the lobe tip for sure)
If it were located up on the tips of the lobes it would be of budding concern, but if it is the bottom then since the cam tappet follower is "up in the air" when it goes past that bottom portion of the cam then the effect of the dimples shown would be pretty much minimal.
A picture of the rocker tappet flat surfaces would be right nice, it would help tie down what is what with the source and extend of potential damage to the engine's total valve train. If that is a tip shown, it has some rocker tappet damage to match up to it ....
I'd be curious how big the "scrubbed" flat spots in the center of the tappet have grown to be in XXXX miles, as that is of interest when people keep asking why we insist you need 1,200 PPM of ZDDP or more in your engine oil to keep that sort of stuff from happening.
As for the head not being flat, that too is common enough. They start out flat and the jug and the head warp together due to heat expansion contraction over time. Our 3 steel plate spring lip rubberized head gaskets are designed to handle some warpage, but I always take a big single sheet of medium course sand paper and reflatten my jug surface and my head surface. The soft aluminium head surface cleans up very quickly and you actually wind up matching up the jug top surfaces to the steel ring of the barrel, removing any high aluminium spots. Easy does it on the jug surface, in other words.
I see no pics of the aluminium cam bearing journals in the head and cover, these would allow us to judge the oil volume and pressure delivery in the engine. Previous owners often set the idle speed too durn low, it should always be 1,000 rpm or higher to provide good oil pressure to those critical soft aluminium bearings.
I'd take the head apart and measure the valve stems and guides and if they were in service spec I'd lap them back in and run them. Remember, our exhaust valves always run at a dull red heat all the time and white valve stem and tulip deposits from the current unleaded gasolines are VERY common.
"Needs new valve guides, seats, valves, springs, keepers, locks,seals ...." might be service spec unnecessary and kinda spendy as the condition of the head is still pretty much normal looking for an EPA lean stock engine.