Pull the hot wire off the starter, replace the fuse, hit the button, & see if it pops the fuse.

You can unhook any wiring connectors in that line & hit the button, No Fuse Pop? Make a connection,, try again, when it starts popping fuses, the problem is in the last section you connected.

Okay... After 3 days of swearing she is fixed...... K.I.S.S finally won... Rigged a jumper for the fuse since it wasnt giving me enough time to trobleshoot, and guess what? The decomp relay was staying engaged and somehow routing power back and blowing the fuse...... Followed wiring back and where the 3 BlkW wires join there was a little bit of bare wire showing. Tugged at it to pull it closer and the one that was bare slid right out of the crimp. Cut the crimp, twisted the 3 wires together and touched the starter switch and away she went! Somehow in 3 days of digging through the harness it stayed in there until I poked it and it practically jumped out...... yeah im embarrassed. After falsely blameing every other thing on the bike. Going to get it secured properly and put it all back together.