So I finally recieved my barnett clutch pack.  Friction disks, steel plates. springs... Soaked em.  Installed.  Put everybody in the right order.  And at midnight went out for a ride.  No slipping.  I used Suzuki 10w40 oil which I think was the key.  Last night while everyone was soaking I came in here to read again...there is quite the debate over this rod length stuff.  So to simplify.  

Barnett clutch pack.  
Middle length rod.  
Suzuki Oil.

Works great.  I did measure both the other clutch disc groups that I have and they were all with in spec.  I took this all appart and put it back together with the different length rods only to still have slippage.  Neither set is glazed but then neither set worked.  I had the ebc set of springs.   But I am still not sure that the ebayer sent me the correct set as they are a different diameter and length.  The Barnett springs are a closer diameter and slightly longer.  The 8 stock springs I have are all within spec too.  Adjusted my cable so I have slight freeplay so the clutch is barley dragging.   So Its snowing and I am riding to work. Oh joy Now i get to get back to building the bike.