I'm with Jerry and drharveys, the wellfare
systems are F'ing crazy, who thought of these?!
and how on earth they never considered they
would be totally abused, jeez!
And I do want kids (but two are enough),
i almost feel it's kinda my duty to have some.
But as a parent I think your one and only
duty/challenge is to make sure that your
child has
at least as good a life, health,
education and chances than the parents did
and I just don't see how this is possible today.
Then again nothing in life is a sure thing
...except death and taxes, and bailouts