Ramonesfiend,
A couple of suggestions...do take the basic rider course, but don't, for a minute, believe that it teaches you what you need to know. I just completed the experienced rider course, and I'm very disappointed in the curriculum.
So...read David L. Hough's books. Get them from your local library if you don't want them for your home library. If they aren't in the catalog, get the exact title,
Proficient Motorcycling: The Ultimate Guide to Riding Well and request that they get the book for you through an inter-library loan. His next books,
Street Strategies: A Survival Guide for Motorcyclists and
More Proficient Motorcycling: Mastering the Ride are also very highly recommended, but start with "Proficient Motorcycling."
Read the info on two web sites,
The Boomer Biker, and
Motorcycle Tips and Techniques. The latter is better but more detailed. Practice the drills they suggest, especially "Motorcycle Tips" slow speed parking lot practice (PLP) and Hough's swerve drill.
Swerve drill? How does one drill for an emergency swerve?
---Pick a spot on safe dry pavement while riding.
---Push hard on one bar to swerve that way
---Push hard on the opposite bar to straighten out
---Push as needed to correct your direction.
Practice 2,999 more times, 'cuz it takes at least 3,000 practices to get something into muscle memory.
Keep in mind your four possible, mutually exclusive safety maneuvers
---Accelerate
-or-
---Brake hard with the front and moderate releasing to easy on the rear
-or-
---Swerve
-or-
---Do nothing and maintain speed and direction (all you CAN do with poor traction)
-or-
Do one action, then do another. NO TWO OF THESE CAN BE DONE AT THE SAME TIME WITHOUT CRASHING.
Get good safety gear...full coverage helmet with eye protection, leather or armored coat, leather pants or chaps, over-ankle boots, leather gloves, and wear all the gear all the time.
Don't be surprised if you learn some things that your Dad doesn't know. Either he's doing it without realizing it, or research has learned things that he's not yet up to date on.